Personal Narrative Essay about Twin Flame

K. is truly one of the best friends a person can have. We are in some ways the exact same person. I consider her family rather than just a friend. I know when I am with her I can always get a good laugh and be effortlessly happy. With her I can think out of the box, and so will she. We are destined to be friends forever. K. is truly the best friend I could ever find, because she is my twin flame, her humor is above all others, and she is so spontaneous. 

I have never believed in twin flames, until now. K. is my twin flame in a platonic way. A twin flame is a mirrored soul. Many people do not believe in them until they find them. If you are lucky enough to meet yours the connection between the simlarities will blow you away. She and I are in many ways always the same. I could see this the first time we met. I was in 6th grade when we first became friends. I had always seen her around school and her bright personality was astounding. Everywhere she was there was this blinding white ray of a personality. Every room she was in she always had her mouth opening back and forth, nonstop talking. Many might find that annoying, but for me at that time I found it admirable. During 6th grade I was shy and scared of not fitting in. I would always speak however everyone else spoke. I wanted to be someone who people liked, and I did not think I was that person. The day I met K. was a day I can never forget. She had gotten switched to my lunch period, because she switched teachers. We had never actually had classes with each other that year. Following her lunch chage, she had sat next to me and immediately started talking. So, I started talking also. Instantly, this feeling that was like a rush of good vibes had changed the mood. I feel like we both knew we would be good friends after this moment. Maybe we knew not right away, but we knew we would. The following year we had our homeroom together and we filled our mornings constantly talking about anything and everything. She knew me better than I knew myself. As our friendship moved forward, she asked me to run cross country with her. I tried a sport that was unknown to me just because she told me to. After she told me about it, I had a wakeup call. I felt like I knew I would enjoy this sport, and I did. She knew parts of me that I didn’t know. She pushed my athleticism that I had no idea was there. It was like my other half had shown up out of nowhere. Years ago, I would have said twin flames are not a thing; but I have met mine and they are truly real. 

K.’s humor really tops all others. Being able to laugh with people creates one of the strongest friendships. Once K. had met someone who was new to the town. At first the situation was very awkward. Quickly she was making jokes about how we could kidnap her, because the new girl really didn’t know us. The joke doesn’t sound funny without the context of the situation being explained further. We were sitting in K.’s car with a stranger we had met a few minutes ago. But, in the moment this was the funniest thing to have ever come to our ears. Another experience was 6th grade auxiliary tryouts. I made her tryout with me, and it was an incredibly stressful week. It was full of practicing nonstop. Near the end of the week, I was about to break. It had been too much stress for me, and it was starting to show. So, during the last practice before tryouts K.’s way of making everyone feel better was tripping and falling in front of everyone. This was a stress reliever for me. A time to just laugh and have fun. She always knows what to do to lighten the mood. She sometimes, even in that losing moment, will try and make me laugh. We were losing our soccer game at the beginning of our sophomore season. I was in goal during our game and we were losing by one goal. The pressure was on and everyone was being profoundly serious. We had soon lost, and after the game everyone was tense. There was a bald guy sitting on his golf cart riding around the field and he had finally left it sitting there. K. then runs to it and takes his water bottle and says, “Quick! Let’s run!” We took off so fast there could’ve been a gust of wind. The run was extremely fast. After, she had gifted it to a member of the boy's team as his birthday present. It was so funny, and we laughed the whole way home. 

One of the best aspects of friendships is spontaneity. K. is very spontaneous, and we never know what we will do next. We were extremely bored one Friday during summer. We had no plans, so we decided out of nowhere to throw a wedding. She and her boyfriend were going to get fake married. We even found an ordain. It was nothing fancy, just some chairs in my yard and speakers. We had a huge crowd though and tons of food. It was super out of nowhere and we had a great time. Also, in some early mornings we would decide on the most random things. Our friend had a date at Waffle House one morning. We decided to follow her but, not as ourselves.  We dressed up in long shorts and pulled our hair back in hats with masks. The two of us looked like boys. We sat at a table near them, and no one noticed until her car was spotted in the parking lot. The whole time we were trying not to be too obvious. With K. our outcome was always adventurous. Another time she had also forced me out of bed and took me to somewhere I didn’t know. When I saw we went to Helen I thought we were tubing, but no. We took old timey photos. It was one of the dumbest things I have ever done. But, without these spontaneous things our friendship would not be the same. 

I know for a fact that many do not think all friendships will last forever. K. and I have always been friends. Since the day we met we have been stuck like glue. Her personality matches mine so well in a way that doesn’t clash. Her humor never fails to make me feel better. And, her spontaneity always makes us have a better time. They say that friendships don’t last forever, but she will definitely be the one that stays.